Deferred Life

This page is a bit of a mishmash. It’s here to give you a bit of background into us – Dante and Alex Harker – and an insight into what what the site is about. In time there will be biographies, essays, blog entries related to the ideas around the idea of a deferred life, plus any other bits that seem to fit here and nowhere else on the site.

Blog Entries

Deferred Life – a brief overview

Essays

A touch existential – written in the middle
of the night in Thailand
Online Dating – It’s a skill and like all skills you
you get better with practice.
Living Life – Not an easy thing when you’re
trying to follow one of lives golden rules.

Biography

Dante Harker
Alex Harker

Some strange turkey thing, makes the sound of a dinosaur (at least until you put it in a pie)

Some strange turkey thing, makes the sound of a dinosaur (at least until you put it in a pie)

Like ants, well more like tiny people, tiny ant like people.

Like ants, well more like tiny people, tiny ant like people.

An average restaurant in San Pedro - actually most of them have some form of floor covering, I think it this place it was out being washed (or something less insane).

An average restaurant in San Pedro – actually most of them have some form of floor covering, I think it this place it was out being washed (or something less insane).

One of Villa Karang's lovely rooms

One of Villa Karang’s lovely rooms

Bones, our cute shop cat, she walked in the moment we opened our doors looking underfed - we soon fattened her up.

Bones, our cute shop cat, she walked in the moment we opened our doors looking underfed – we soon fattened her up.

I don't know why I have to take so many shots of the same thing, it makes this comment malarkey soooooo something and then something else.

I don’t know why I have to take so many shots of the same thing, it makes this comment malarkey soooooo something and then something else.

We have a great boat captain - Mughni - who helps us find the best sites.

We have a great boat captain – Mughni – who helps us find the best sites.

Our room at Gili Divers

Our room at Gili Divers

This place had so many wow factors, no vendors selling water, but plenty of wow.

This place had so many wow factors, no vendors selling water, but plenty of wow.

After the rainy season

After the rainy season

This is kind of the same shot as the last one, I really should be more selective.

This is kind of the same shot as the last one, I really should be more selective.

Crazy busy market, we only found enough courage to buy one strange piece of fruit, which we later had to throw at a passer-by because we didn't know how to eat it.

Crazy busy market, we only found enough courage to buy one strange piece of fruit, which we later had to throw at a passer-by because we didn’t know how to eat it.

All our shiny regulators

All our shiny regulators